Avoiding useless complaint helps to develop sensitivity and attentiveness of the heart.
Father Louis-Marie Parent, O.M.I.

Reflection on Father Parent's thoughts:
Reading this thought from Father Parent, I realize that striving to avoid unnecessary complaining in the face of events that come our way requires greater control over our emotions. You will agree with me that it is sometimes easier to give in to complaining than to marvel when we face life's challenges. In my opinion, by avoiding focusing on the negative aspects and practicing this absence of complaint, we benefit from greater open-mindedness and resilience, which allows us to face difficult situations with more serenity. In this way, we develop the ability to adapt and accept events while viewing them as opportunities for growth and chances to practice transforming our attitudes.

For example, let's look at someone who loses their job. What a tragedy! They have every reason to feel discouraged and complain. But if, instead of giving in to sadness, they decide to focus on their skills and strengths, they will explore exciting career paths that are sure to open doors for them. By choosing to adopt this positive mindset, they will be able to overcome this challenge with the right tools to face uncertainty.

I believe it is important to keep in mind that a person who avoids complaining is often perceived as more serene and inspiring to those around them, as well as influential towards others.

Louise Fleury,
Volunteer of God from Drummondville